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How a woman can attain a perfect orgasm
1 Climb on top. When you stay on top you have control of the action so that you can do anything you want. It may take a little more work but it puts you in charge.
2 Do it yourself. Don’t wait for a man to “give” you an orgasm. Take one. By touching your clitoris while he is inside you. After all, nobody knows what makes you come better than you do.
3 Learn to masturbate. Studies show that failure to orgasm is five times higher among women who never masturbated than among other women. Of the 10 percent of women who stated that they had never had an orgasm, a full 95 percent said they had never masturbated.
4 Fantasize. Get yourself off big time by imagining all kinds of sexual situations that you would never attempt in real life. Picture yourself getting oral sex from under a table at a restaurant. Or having sex with two men at the same time. Or having sex with a man while your fiancé watches. Or having sex with a women. Visualize a scene that really turns you on.
5 Watch porn. Hard-core videos are helpful if you have trouble visualizing the scenarios that get you aroused. Such movies show us that sex is fun. Especially if it involves multiple partners, homosexual sex, anal sex or interracial sex. Watching it all on the small screen can help to free you from conventional notions about what is “right” and what is “wrong.”
6 Stimulate your G spot. Locate that spot when you’re sexually aroused. Lie on your back, squat, or lie on your stomach. Place your palm face down on your vulva and slowly insert a finger inside your vagina (use lube if you’re feeling a little dry), crooking it forward. When you’re up to about the second knuckle you should feel a slightly bumpy or ridged area on the upper wall of your vagina. The G spot likes pressure, so press down and pull forward using a "come hither" motion with your fingers. Because it can be rather awkward to stimulate the G by hand, a vibrator or dildo can get the job done more effectively. Apply a little lube first.
7 Use a vibrator. Take a long, steamy bath to relax. Then lie down on the bed, still wearing your panties. Put the vibrator on its lowest setting, laying it against your genital area so that it’s touching your clitoris through the material. After teasing yourself like this for a while, remove your underwear and press the vibrator against your vaginal lips, gradually upping the speed until the vibrations are more intense. Then, push the vibrator slowly into your vagina, as far as you like, sliding it in and out in a steady rhythm.
8 Do the squeeze. Get an intense orgasm with a minimum of effort. Lie on your back with your legs slightly apart. Let him lie on top of you but with one important difference – make him put his legs on the outside of yours while he props himself up on his elbows. When he enters you, tighten your legs together so that your upper thighs are squeezing the base of his penis. This action will transport you to seventh heaven, the result of the area around your clitoris coming in contact with his shaft. His movement is restricted so you get to control exactly how deeply and how slowly he penetrates you – even though he’s doing all the work. Don’t squeeze too hard, though. You might do him serious injury.
9 Shower power. Step into the shower and have him lather you from neck to toe. Them turn around and let him do the same thing from behind. Stand facing the wall with your hands against the tiles and your bum sticking behind you. He enters you from behind with one arm around your waist (to pull you into him) and the other braced against the wall for balance. All the movement here is from the hips. Caution: Keep you feet rooted to the spot or you might fall.
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